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Anonymous Asked:
I AM LE BACK! uhm, we talk a lot at school, he's the only guy that's nice. he is going to stand up to this guy who everyone thinks he is the coolest which might put him in a bad postition. does that help? from what you said if you have good judgement then he seems like a genuine guy one of which that stands out for you, if he is friendly and talks to you a lot that’s always a good sign, most relationships start as friendship and when you get close it all comes together and you find feelings for each other and i can only hope this is the case for you because you seem quite into him, if you aren’t already suggest hanging out on your own see what happens xx
goodgirlwentbad Asked:
i just started a relationship with someone and hes leaving to newyork for collegue , i like him alot but dont trust him enough , should i leave him before its too latee? that is a big question, one of which is not my decision it is yours, i can only give you things to consider really, firstly why don’t you trust him? there is no point in being in a relationship without trust really, he choose to start a relationship with you so he must have some feelings for you and you’d hope he doesn’t have the intention of hurting you, you should also consider distance, i’m not sure how far you are to newyork but i know that distance can create a strain on some relationships, for others it’s a great thing and helps to keep the relationship alive, just think about how your feel and if you see a future, only you know the answer, maybe you need to talk to him upfront or maybe you need to do it more subtly to get your answer that’s up to you xx
Anonymous Asked:
hi, i need an opinion.. so i like this guy and i'm friends with someone who lives with him so i was at his house and my friend cut my hair, and whenever my friend said he liked me he wouldn't disagree, but he didn't agree either, what does this mean? it’s hard to say either way to be honest without a little more background, how does he act around you? he is obviously trying to hide his real feelings either way which is frustrating for you i can imagine but your friend may be putting him on the spot and that puts him in an awkward position really, i need a bit more information, come back with a bit more detail of the situation and i’ll be able to advise better xx
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Anonymous Asked:
what does it mean if boys only like me when they're drunk? like, in the sense that they're interested until they sober up, and also in the sense that only drunk boys like me. i don't know what i'm doing wrong alcohol often eases the awkwardness of new people and relations, it’s not that they no longer like you it’s that they don’t know how to act or they are scared you regret it or numerous other reasons, i can not promise this is right in all cases but atleast some.. drinking changes a lot of people how the act, talk etc and this ‘new person’ is often found attractive but so is the normal one too, you’re doing nothing wrong, just up your confidence and be patient, be friendly, talk, flirt a little but most of all be yourself, there is no rush to be with someone new, it’s about waiting for the right one.. xx Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life, that you expect it to always be there, because you cant remember a time in your life when it wasnt. But then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong only because its so unfamiliar, and in that moment you realize you’re happy.
Anonymous Asked:
i've been on and off with this guy for the past 5 months. i still really like him but he recently screwed me over for the second time and ditched me. we fought a lot when we were together and he apologized for everything last night. he wants to hang out with me tonight and talk about everything but im scared i will want him back. everyone tells me i can do better and he's an asshole so i don't know what to do. you need to think about what’s best for you, you deserve to be treated right and to be happy, not to be messed around.. on/off relationships never work out in the end, it’s a harsh reality they aren’t worth the time or effort of continuous arguing and heartache, i’ve been there and so will the majority of people at some point, there has to be a time where one of you says enough is enough and you come to terms with the fact it’s unlikely to work out due to reoccurring problems, don’t take him back.. you deserve more than that, hear him out but then put your points across, see if he fights for you if not he isn’t worth it, he needs to look over everything and have a sense of realization and it’s your job to help do that by highlighting the problems and reasons, there are plenty of boys out there that will treat you how they should and you won’t have to argue with, you’re young.. give it time, listen to your friends too they know what’s best for you! xx
Anonymous Asked:
i've liked this boy for over a year now. he's told me that he likes me back, and for awhile that was all fine. that was all that i needed. i originally told him that i wouldn't date him, but awhile back i said that i would. he gave me the impression that we don't need to rush into things. and i know we don't, we're both really busy people and have our own lives. what bothers me is, he tells me that he likes me but never does anything, he says he has trouble showing emotion...what should i do? sounds like quite a complex situation that could be down to countless things, i suspect he either just finds it hard to talk to you about it or like he says showing you, that or he is just worried about saying too much or the wrong thing given your situation, you’re right to put both of your lives into consideration but at what point if at all is your situation going to be anything more, it’s hard when you don’t know quite where you stand, you’ve been quite uncertain yourself and that’s fine but sooner or later you need to make a decision either way.. are you waiting for him to prove himself as such or do you just want to know where you stand? rushing into things rarely ends well, so if it’s a casual thing you have then that’s great if it works, just speak to him about it, if he likes you like he says he does it will all become clear xx
Anonymous Asked:
I really, really like this boy. We had a little fling once, but we were both drunk. We still speak now but sometimes he seems he isn't interested and others he's like "lets meet soon" and stuff. I don't know how to act with him anymore.. sounds as if he is giving you mixed messages and that could be for any number of reasons but you don’t deserve the hot/cold treatment, just talk to him about it, you could be making presumptions but if he genuinely had an interest he would make that clear, suggest yourself to meet, if you like him then go for it, there is no harm done in seeing where things go, i understand that it’s hard when you don’t know what he is going to be like, just try to get something out of him, act the way he does to you and see what happens, or just be straight with him so that he can be with you, xx
Anonymous Asked:
Sometimes I want to disappear. I pretend that I'm things/people that I'm not so I can get away from myself. what’s so wrong with being yourself? it’s normal to sometimes want to disappear or run or hide when times get tough, people hide away instead of seeking the support they need and it makes them feel helpless, it brings you down further, open up whether it be to me, a friend, family member or someone you can trust when you need to, that way you won’t have to pretend.. xx
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Anonymous Asked:
You see. I just broke up with my boyfriend, because i'm fed up with all the fights and misunderstandings. He wanted me back, but i refused, and said some bad things. And now, i can't stop thinking about him, dreaming about him, missing him a lot and crying. I cant move on. But i though to myself, we've already been through a lot of break-ups and fights. And, i think we're both starting to flirt with people, and we're both tired. We've been together for 19 months. Can you please help me? you have the right thinking here, i can totally understand why you are tired of it all because the drama just keeps repeating itself over and over, it’s clear you still care and have feelings though, moving on can be incredibly hard despite the arguments etc there was once something good there and that kind of relationship is what you are craving whether it’s with him or not, it can take a long time and you’ve highlighted that you both are slightly, you did the right thing to stand your ground and not give in to another attempt, sometimes things just don’t work especially if you find yourself falling down the same trap, it’s normal to miss him, nothing is stopping you trying to be friends though, i get that it’s hard atleast for a while but it’s worth a try to still have him close, the best way to move on is to distract yourself, spend time with your friends, take up a new hobby, find a way to channel your energy and take your mind off things, until you find someone new most people find it hard to fully move on, it takes time to settle and adjust but you’ll get there, it will take time, just don’t get upset remember the good times you shared but also remember the reasons why you are apart, xx
Anonymous Asked:
i play water polo and i work out everyday i can, i eat healthfully but i still don't loose any weight. i have thought about going bulimic because i don't have any other options. what should i do? if you exercise and eat healthily you should embrace your body - it’s healthy and that’s what you should be aiming for.. when you are exercising you need to be eating well and keeping it inside you or you won’t have the energy to exercise and your body is going to be put under huge strain, check out my page on eating disorders «click, please please please do not resort to that, if you are really that concerned look further into what you eat but keep things in the right moderations because your body needs all the different nutrients and the type of work out you are doing, cardio is the best for fat burn, drink lots of water and sleep.. be healthy, embrace a healthy body.. make small changes and see what happens, what is your motivation to lose weight? if you’re finding it doesn’t work or things a struggle and you feel influenced please do not hesitate to talk to talk to me about it, xx
Anonymous Asked:
is it normal for me and my boyfriend to exchange nudes, sextext, and sexcall even though we see each other everyday? i'm afraid we're too clingy and that he might fall out of love for me because im too clingy. please answerr im dying .T_T if that’s what you are happy and comfortable doing then of course there is nothing wrong with that, it sounds like it keeps your relationship interesting, just be careful and make sure you can trust him so that the private messaging doesn’t end up in the wrong hands or in the wrong place, if you have concerns then talk to him about it, i know from previous experiences seeing someone everyday after a while can add strain to a relationship.. you do need to make time for other people and other things is what i will encourage, i know you want to spend time with him but it should be done in moderation, don’t get close confused with clingy.. they are totally different, just talk to him, you just want what’s best for your relationship and for it to last and i’m sure he feels exactly the same, any progressions come back if you want to xx |
